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This is a post specifically written for husbands. That sad and somewhat crude comment came from a respected spiritual leader, and I knew right then that his marriage was in trouble. I can only hope he and his wife got some professional help while they still could. My husband told me about a former friend of his whose marriage was destroyed over this issue. As a woman, I could copy the social correctness and start blaming men for being insensitive and single-minded sexually, that is. First of all, I believe God made you the way you are. And if some in the Christian church have led you to believe you are spiritually defective because of your sexual drives, I apologize on their behalf.
God needs you to be strong, virile, masculine! More on that another time. But as a woman, I want to give you the inside story on how to get more of what you want and need — WITHIN your marriage only, of course. But rather than feeling sorry for yourself, or looking outside your marriage for satisfaction, here are five questions to consider, and some practical things you may do, that have a good chance of improving the sexual connection between you and your wife. The One love need for women is unconditional lovejust like it is for men.
Many women will only be able to engage sexually if the emotional temperature between you is warm. Your part: be sure she knows you love her unconditionally, using HER love language. If there are conflicts, take the initiative to start working through them together. Focus on optimizing your relationship as a whole. Women go through numerous hormonal changes during different life stages, some of which ificantly affect her sexuality.
Other medical problems or medication side effects can also affect her this way. Your part: encourage her to see a physician.
Offer to go with her: she may or may not want you to. If work, children, worry, finances, or caring for aging parents is wearing her out, it may be difficult for your wife to find the mental and physical energy to connect with you sexually, even if she wants to.
It may be harder for her to put down those worries than it is for you. Your part: at a time when she can listen, let your wife know how much you miss intimacy with her.
Men may try to ignore the possibility of pornographybut women struggle with these problems also. And some women, even Christian women, do cheat. Your part: be honest if you suspect your wife is looking elsewhere for sex. Get some help for yourselfand make a conscious choice about what to do about it. A woman needs to feel desired, thought about, cherished, and cared for.
She will sense if you only want her for her body, or if you truly care about HER. And caring for her unselfishly is no more than God asks of you. Ephesians Your part: Stretch yourself and find a way to romance your wife. You were creative when you dated her: do it again!
You may be surprised at her response. Remember, you cannot control your wife. A healthy marriage, including healthy sexuality, is a matter for both husband and wife to continually work on. She is completely responsible for her behavior.
This is only focusing on what YOU can do. Know that God understands your heart. What can you do as a husband to help bring the two of you closer together? Leave a comment below. Communication is the 1 issue couples struggle with. Understanding your Communication Style will be an important step in making your communication more effective. Better communication always le to improved intimacy. This brief FREE Communication Personality Assessment will provide you personalized indicating your communication strengths, communication challenges, and some tips on taking your communication to the next level.
You really can experience deeper intimacy and a more loving relationship. Does she feel loved by you? Are physical problems affecting her sexually? Is she too distracted, worried, depressed, or tired? Is she indulging her sexual desires elsewhere? Are you romancing your wife?
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